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| On Attracting Love |
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by Inelia Benz
Attracting love is one of the most important things most of us want to do. But if you are attracting the wrong sort of person for you, then no matter how many of these articles you read and how much of the advice you carry out, all it will accomplish is a lot of frustration as you see one after another of your dates turning out to be totally unsuitable. One of the huge benefits of my personal search to find love was that it was a big part of why and how the Fast Guide Series came to exist. I have to say one of the last things I learned in the subject of love was to release the need to be in an intimate relationship. This was a huge step for me because as a Latin woman, I was brought up to believe life had no meaning unless I had a man to live with. Plus I was brought up with Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty and Snow White, all of which were women who only became happy and safe once they were with their Prince. Being in a relationship was such a priority to me that I married at 18. That marriage lasted 17 years and was very challenging. It taught me a lot, but was not the happy and safe state I had come to expect from my upbringing. Last year I married for the second time at age 40 and by having released the “need” to be in a relationship, this second marriage experience is turning out to be liberating and fulfilling in ways that I could not imagine. I cannot say or promise that it will last, but we are enjoying our lives together as well as our new baby boy. My personal experience reflects what I attracted into my life using the Seven Step System and does not in any way reflect what you can achieve when you use it. You may want to attract a spouse and children like I did, or you may want to attract lots of sexual partners, or perhaps a combination of the two. There is no judgment nor outlines on what you should be looking for and one of the things that you will accomplish is to find out exactly what it is you want, and/or is right for you now. The beauty is that if at a future date you change your mind and want to attract something different, you can carry out the Seven Step System again and you will attract whatever new situation and person/people you want at that time. It has also been used successfully to improve existing sexual relationships and marriages. The Fast Guide to Love does not presume you are heterosexual, bisexual or gay or monogamous or polygamous. These are personal choices that you have to make in the privacy of your own home. (c) Inelia Benz www.inelia.com              |