Being In Control

Of Your Reality At All Times

An important aspect of being a creator of your reality is
to be in control of your reality at all times. When you are
not being in control of your reality, other forces are
pulling you in all directions, causing you to feel out of
control, lost and confused about what is going on. You stay
in control by knowing what it is that you want and acting
accordingly, and not to the wishes and influences of the
people and environment around you. Being in control also
makes you attractive to others because you're powerful.

It is a very different situation when you are in a group as
compared to when you are alone. When you are in a group,
the many different intentions and thoughts of people are
pulling you in many different directions all at the same
time. Therefore to be in control, you have to stay centered
and act according to your own mind. You do not have to
follow along with the activities of the group no matter who
is leading if it is not your wish. You are not here to
please men but to please God which is your true inner self.

Have the boldness to declare your own intentions and do
what you want without asking for permission because it is
your reality and you do not need anyone's permission in it.
Show strength of perception by stating your own opinion
when it differs from others. Be in charge by talking about
how you want things to be in your space. Show that you are
a whole person and treat others with wholeness by not being
approval seeking or giving. All these communicates higher
status about you being a creator of your reality.

There are times when you may be in a very positive state of
consciousness because you're feeling really good about what
has happened or is going to happen. But then you meet
someone who is in a really negative state of consciousness.
Your interaction with that person threatens to pull you
down to a lower state and they refuse to be lifted to a
higher state by your positivity. You do not have to lower
your state just because of their reality, but you can
continue to remain positive and let them be negative.

Sometimes people have a way of seeing things which are
different from the way you see it. But if you are not
careful, you could be unknowingly influenced into seeing it
the way they see it even though it is not good for you. Do
not buy into other people's frame of reality, but make them
buy into yours. After all perception frames reality,
therefore if your frame is the better one for all then you
should have the boldness to enforce it over others. That is
the characteristic of good leadership, so be the leader
always.

In your reality, you are the creator and everyone else is
an aspect of your consciousness. You make the choices and
not let others make the choices for you. You can always
have a choice by choosing to have a choice. You do it by
not letting others tell you that you can't do this, or have
this or that you don't have a choice. Be assertive about
what you want and not being apologetic about it. Be the
selector by showing that you're the one who does the
choosing. Others don't choose you, you choose them.

Every request, suggestion or directions from others that
are not in line with your intentions and desires are tests
for your strength of consciousness, power of will and
quality of perception. Strength of consciousness is what
dominance is all about. Do not let others tell you what to
do but do only what you want. Tell others what to do
because it is your reality and everyone is an element for
you to move. Be a commander of man and a master of people.
Be a king in your kingdom and a ruler of your world.

Do not be caught up in following the current trends and
affairs of people just because you want to fit in when it
isn't really the style or way of living that you prefer.
Show that you are aware but above it. You do not
participate in such things because it is not what you want
to create in your reality. Be transcendent. Live in your
own reality and not in the reality of others. You do not
have to abide by consensus reality but you can choose your
own. Be different, be independent. Be unique, be
individual. Be you.

It is also important to act as a master of your reality, a
creator and a ruler of your world. Have strong gestures and
postures, not weak gestures and postures. Have strong eye
contact to show strength of will. Speak with a voice of
authority and certainty. Show by your mannerisms that you
know what you're doing, where you are going and what's good
for you as well as for others. Demonstrate a strong
reality, strong identity and strong intent to others in
everything you do. Be calm and composed at all times.

Be in control by not needing to control everything. This is
a paradox here but when you are trying to control something
that isn't letting you control it, you are being controlled
by it if you allow yourself to be attached and lose your
power. Command and demand but do not lose composure or
presence when you are not obeyed. Be insistent but
detached. When you can pull the strings of others without
letting your own strings get tangled in theirs, that is
when you have freedom of control over reality.

Be a god of your reality, because it is your reality and no
one else's. Don't give any of your power away. Keep all
your power for yourself by only allowing yourself to have
the final say of things. You don't have to control other
people but you only need to control yourself and not let
others control you. Perfect reality creation is a balance
and combination of letting go and allowing situations to
guide you along, and also by taking control of where and
how you want things to go. Perfect control is what feels
right.

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Enoch Tan aims to help people achieve greater awareness in
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